I Love Mortgage Brokering

What if the reason you’re holding back isn’t fear of failure—but guilt about leaving others behind? In this episode, I dig into one of the most surprising mindset blocks I’ve faced as a business owner: the belief that if I succeed too much, I’ll lose the people I care about. This idea comes from The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks, a book I’ve read five times—and each time, it reveals something new. This time, it showed me how old loyalty patterns and hidden guilt were still shaping how I lead, grow, and show up. If you’ve ever felt conflicted about leveling up, this episode will help you see what’s really going on—and what to do about it. What We Cover: Why Growth Feels Risky – The fear that success will cost you connection with friends, family, or your roots. The Loyalty Trap – How childhood beliefs about “not outshining” others can follow you into business. Replacing the Narrative – Why I used to believe I couldn’t grow my business and have a strong relationship. Seeing the Pattern – How this hidden belief was