Broke Girl Therapy With Stefanie Maegan

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The Intervention Feat. Sixelaafiercee & Jessica Clarke by Stefanie Maegan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Does Sex Matter? Feat. Danquai by Stefanie Maegan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Vagina Thingz Feat. Jafra Bryant by Stefanie Maegan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The List Feat. Jessica Clarke by Stefanie Maegan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

a lot of SIDES Feat. Rose McAleese by Stefanie Maegan Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Imagine being discriminated for not only the color of your skin, but also your sexuality. Being black and queer has a perspective that I feel gets overlooked. I’m not black nor am I queer, so I asked Mike to share his perspective as a *gay black man in America* on dealing with racism, homophobia, and even his own masculinity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Besides seeing a qualified therapist, there are other ways people find healing and peace. Some find it through art, others find it through religion, and in my case - I find it through podcasting. Previously on the "Young Mom" episode, my friend Bre shared a story about how she was able to connect with her daughters' father who passed away. The reading was so therapeutic and moving, that I needed to try it for myself. Contact & book a reading with Yesenia Berbiar: http://healingheartshealingsouls.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

TBH Zotowski and I had no idea what to talk about for this episode. After several shots of tequila and a couple of beers, we decided to drunkenly talk about fuck boys. Turns out, the topic of "fuck boys" is a lot more triggering for me than I thought. I should probably go see a therapist, heh. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

For me and Alexis, being a "boujie hoe" is the next step after going through the hoe phase. Because we've had a fair share of "fuck boys", we learned to be selective and keep our standards high. We love sex, and are open to having fun, but it takes way more than just a boba date to get us in the mood. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

We go on dating apps in hopes to find someone we are compatible with. You match up with someone you think is attractive, and you set up a date to meet. The conversations are great, the vibe is right, and there are NO red flags. BUT WHY DA FU*K DON'T YOU FEEL ANYTHING? Because It's not a match. James and I went on a date last year (he was my very first Hinge date) and we openly admit the lack of romantic chemistry we have and why we decided to keep things platonic. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Some of us only have a carry on bag while others have baggage that we need to check in and pay extra $50 for because it’s hella heavy. Rachel is now in a happy and healthy relationship, but she carried a lot of luggage along the way to get to this point. The reality is, we all have been through disappointment or trauma in our lives that have shaped us to being the person that we are today. It’s about finding someone who’s willing to help you carry all of your bags and make you realize that they got your back no matter what. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Being a serial dater is exhausting. I needed a break, so I gave myself a 3 month "dating cleanse" to relax, refocus, and get my life together. I'm feeling determined and ready to get back in the game, and I believe I have a better understanding of who I am and what I want. Let's see if I finally get this sh*t right. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In honor of pride month, I wanted to take a moment to shine light on the LGBTQ community. In the past, I have invited plenty of gay men on the show to give their point of view, but never have I invited a gay woman. Frankie, a "baby lesbian", is someone who finally came to terms with her sexuality only within the past year. She shares the differences between dating men vs. dating women and the struggles of becoming a "new" lesbian. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Imagine becoming a mom while your lifestyle consisted of partying and trying to get your sh*t together. It's not about you anymore, and you have to figure out the best way to transition your youthful lifestyle to motherhood WHILE still balancing your relationship with the father. Bre's story consists of every stage of being a young & single mom who also had to stay strong while she mourned over someone she loved. The amount of resilience this woman has is incredible, and I'm so thankful that she is sharing her story. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

At times, I've been insecure in the bedroom. Does my hair look ok? Am I doing this properly? Does he care if I didn't shave? I wanted to take a moment and pick Quai's brain to get a better understanding of a man's point of view during sex and how I can tackle my insecurities in the bedroom. I know what I like, but how do they like it? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I'm a firm believer that no one is really bad at sex, everyone just likes different things in bed. Some people may require a kink...while others are fine just being on top. With oral, some expect the favor to be returned...while others don't even care to do foreplay. Rachel and I share our notes on what we expect during sex, and yes it gets explicit af. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I wasn't going to post this episode, only because I felt like "Bobby" didn't deserve any more of my attention. Now that I have taken some time alone, I reminded myself that I'm not doing this for him or for any other man. I do this sh*t for me. Dating is trial & error. We put ourselves out there & we keep our options open. Unfortunately, hearts will get broken and rejection will happen. In this case, my self-esteem was shut down when "Bobby" ended things with me to be with someone else. My head was spinning and I started to feel like I wasn't good enough for anyone. Moments like this is when you need to have your friends around to remind you of the boss a*s bitch that you are. Thank you, Rose. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices