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What is the Inner Child? The inner child refers to the collection of memories and experiences from childhood. These memories shape mental shortcuts, called schema, which influence how individuals interpret and react to present-day life events. Children’s Cognitive Development Children process information concretely and personally, often believing events are their fault. The schema formed during childhood tend to be all-or-nothing and are carried into adulthood unless evaluated and adjusted. Impact of Insecure Attachment A lack of secure attachment in childhood can result in a "wounded" inner child. This wounded inner child often struggles with emotional regulation, boundary-setting, and assertiveness in adulthood. Secure Attachment and Emotional Regulation Secure attachments help children identify and manage emotions. These children can tolerate their own and others' emotions and effectively set boundaries and communicate needs. Healing the Wounded Inner Child The goal is not to eliminate the inn