Preston Moore: Thoughts, Attitudes & Behaviors

I can’t tell you how big of a part support groups have played in my life. Not only groups I physically go to but more importantly, the list of people I call on a regular basis. When I’m going through something, in life, at work and in relationships, I have to check my motives. I have to see where my thoughts, attitudes, behaviors, defects of character and most importantly, my ego is. These are the types of things that will blind my ability to connect with people and build up the important relationships in my life. When I talk to my people, I’m trying to find the root cause of my pain. What is it that is causing me to feel this way and how is it getting in the way of seeing things clearly. The people I speak to, are mostly men who have experience with what I’m going through. These aren’t buddies that are going to always agree with me. They help me with my side of the street. I also have a group of friends that I call the “commiseration committee”. These are the guys I call when I just want someone to tell me I