The Art Of Love Podcast

Most women prefer alpha males but many people are confused as to what his traits really are. Is he the jerk who is rude and tries to control women?  What if you're a beta male?  Can you still attract high quality women?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia illustrates the differences between alpha and beta males and reveals what to do if you're a beta male.

What should a woman do when she has been dating and sleeping with a guy for 3 months without a title because he wants to take things "slow"?  Should she hang in there or walk away?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to resolve this very common situation.

How long should you wait to have sex with a new guy?  Is it okay to wait 3 months or should you do it sooner rather than later?  Dating/relationship Lucia explains exactly what you need to do if your goal is to have a committed relationship.

According to the FBI, an estimated 1 in 10 online, dating profiles are fake.  How can you spot a fake profile?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia points out what to look for to make sure you don't get your hopes up for someone you'll never meet.

This week's email is from a guy who is dating a woman who is very religious, whereas he's not.  Also, she doesn't want to have children but will have them if it means he'll stay with her.  He wants to know if he should stay and try to make it work or move on?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia tells him how to handle this delicate situation.

What do you to when the person you've been in a long distance relationship gives you an ultimatum - move in together or end it?  Yet you're not sure about where you want to live.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives the tough love answer to this common situation.

What can you do when you discover your partner has an addiction and it starts to affect your relationship?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle a partner who has an addiction - whether it's porn, alcohol, drugs, etc.

What do you do when someone has been unfaithful several times, you've moved on and then they want you back?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains how to handle this all too common situation.

There is so much dating advice available these days for both sexes, that it can be overwhelming & confusing.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia simplifies the process by revealing the one thing that men and women can do right now to find and keep a great partner.

Do you desperately want to be in a relationship?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why feeling as if you need to have someone in your life is a sympton of a bigger issue and what to do about it so that you choose someone out of desire rather than desperation.

This week's email is from a woman who has been in a long distance relationship for 4 months and her boyfriend now wants to take a break.  Lucia explains how to handle things when the person you're dating asks for space.

This week's email is from a woman who went on a few dates with a guy whose "eyes lit up" when they were first starting to get to know each other but now he's not returning her texts.  Did he mislead her or did she do something to push him away?  Dating/relationship expert reveals what's really going on.

This week's email is from a woman who broke up with a guy after dating for 9 months because he didn't want to make a commitment.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why he won't commit and what she can do about it.

People who feel they have unfinished business with someone from the past, often decide to re-connect on social media.  This isn't a problem, unless one or both of them are already in a relationship.  This week Lucia answers an email from a woman whose boyfriend is cheating on her with a woman he went to high school with.  Find out how to handle this situation.

Rejection is painful and something that everyone experiences sooner or later.  Is there a way to respond to rejection so that it doesn't hurt so much?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you shouldn't take it personally if someone rejects you.

What's the right way to ask a woman out so there's a better chance that she'll say yes?  Should you compliment a woman you want to date?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia gives 3 tips for asking a woman on a date.

Everyone has a list - whether it's mental or an actual list - of their ideal partner.  However, most people are missing one important criteria on their list.  Without this, none of the other qualities matter.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia reveals what that criteria is.

This week's podcast is in response to an email from a woman who has been dating a guy for 1 year and still has no "title".  Dating/relationship expert Lucia advises her on how to handle this common situation.

Is there ever a good reason to date someone you're not really interested in?  Dating/relationship expert Lucia says there are 3 reasons you should go out on at least one date with someone you don't feel chemistry with. 

A woman wants to know if she should write a letter to a guy who is doing the slow fade.  Dating/relationship expert Lucia explains why you should NEVER write this type of letter.