Life Over Coffee With Rick Thomas

You're on a church staff or part of a church's leadership team. You become aware of a fellow leader in known sin. How are you to help him? What are some things you should consider with a brother or sister who is in a trap? How can you emulate Paul's teaching in Galatians 6:1-2 practically to restore such a person? In this episode, Rick shares some helpful to a struggling leader. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-299-how-to-interact-with-a-pastor-with-known-sin/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – We started our Mastermind Program in 2010. It has gone through many changes because, like our individual sanctification, we're always learning, growing, and maturing. In this episode, I explain our most recent changes, the reasons we are making them, and why it might be the right time for you to jump into this world-class, discipleship, counselor training. The start date for these new changes is set for Spring 2021. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-298-rethinking-reworking-relaunching-our-mastermind-program Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – Forgiveness is a multifaceted opportunity for two people to reconcile after there is a transgression. Because of the complexity of sin and the complications of some relationships, it’s not always straightforward. Each person must work hard to understand biblical forgiveness and do all they can to reconcile when sin divides two people. In this episode, I respond to a questioner that is asking for clarity about forgiveness. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-297-knowing-how-to-live-out-practical-forgiveness-is-essential Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – A friend asked me for advice on helping someone who has gone through some deep hurts in her life. The horrific events were patterns, not an isolated episode. When assisting a hurting person, you must marshall many biblical helpers because of the long-term care needed. Our cyber-ministry cannot be the primary care, but it is superb supplemental help. This episode provides a practical way that our ministry can serve you as you serve the walking wounded. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-296-some-practical-advice-for-those-struggling-with-deep-hurts/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – I have a new Christian friend who is interested in Bible reading plans. He has so many questions about God, life, and the Bible. It’s refreshing! What do you think would be an excellent Bible, reading plans, apps, and other things you would recommend for a young believer? – Ministry Donor Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-295-thoughts-on-bible-plans-studies-memorization-and-more/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – A friend asked Rick for the best way to start a ministry like his. She was inspired to share the practical gospel with a hurting world. The current cultural and political climate is what's motivating her. She's been following our ministry for a while and asked how to take advantage of technology's redemptive use to affect lives. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-294-what-is-the-best-way-to-start-a-ministry-similar-to-yours/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Rick met with a young couple for pre-marriage counseling recently, and the man asked him for the top things they needed to know to have a great marriage. He shared three things with this couple. After the counseling session, he turned on his mic and shared them because they are vital for any couple who wants a lasting marriage. As you listen, please take advantage of the supplemental resources in these Show Notes, which further explain and teach how to apply these ideas to your marriage. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-293-three-things-a-couple-should-know-for-a-lasting-marriage Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – At the end of The Hope Conference in Sarasota, Florida, Rick Thomas and Daniel Berger answered several of the attendees’ questions. During the conference, folks placed their questions in boxes, which they collected at the end. They could not answer all of them, but this episode provides many of their biblically-based, well-thought-out responses to everyday, practical issues that are vital to all of us. Rick and Daniel plan to answer the other questions in future Life Over Coffee with Rick Thomas and Daniel Berger video episodes. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-292-rick-and-daniel-doing-q-a-from-the-hope-conference/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – We went to Sarasota, Florida, January 13-17, 2021, to co-teach with Dr. Daniel Berger. This episode gives you a behind the scenes look at our itinerary and other tidbits about our trip. This conference was the first one since we were in Idaho in August 2021. Due to COVID restrictions, churches canceled and rescheduled our meetings. Please enjoy the brief synopsis of this excellent conference. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-291-a-behind-the-scenes-oral-narrative-of-the-hope-conference/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

This moment in American history is one of the best opportunities for Christians to make a difference. In the past, we operated in an 18% gray world that was neither hot nor cold. Today, it's darker than at any time in our lives. The darker the night, the brighter the light. This moment is our time, but the disappointment is too deep for too many of our brothers and sisters, and their frustration is too intense. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-290-learning-how-to-respond-to-a-world-you-dont-like-anymore Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – What are you to do with unconfessed past sins against your spouse? What are the questions you want to ask if you were helping someone who wants to come clean? In this episode, Biff sinned against Mable years ago, and after keeping it a secret, he wants to confess. Why should he? Why should he not? How will you lead Biff through this common marital dilemma? Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-289-what-is-the-best-way-to-handle-secret-marriage-sins/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – It’s common for folks to think they are a bother to someone when they need help. This kind of thinking is problematic in the body of Christ. I’m not sure how to change that mindset since so many folks say it. They assume the person is busy, and they don’t want to “bother” them. Though I appreciate the show of respect and kindness to whatever may be happening in the discipler’s life, that perspective is counter-productive to the Christian mandate to make disciples. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-288-its-time-to-start-bothering-people-for-your-good/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – Lucia and I were meeting with a couple, and the conversation centered on the idea of confession. I shared some things with them to help as they continue to grow in loving each other well. At one point, the wife said she had not considered how confession and repentance require two willing parties. She only thought of the offender’s responsibility, not the offended’s. This episode is some of the things I shared with them, specifically about confession. https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-287-considering-the-curious-contours-of-confession/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – In this episode, Rick answers several questions from our community. There are Mastermind questions, plus how not to feel like a failure after an unwanted divorce, how to react to a narcissist who lies about you, working through PTSD, and some practical pointers for overcoming grief. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-286-how-do-you-live-with-a-narcissist-who-accuses/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – When your child begins to embrace a worldview from the culture, there are a few things you want to assess as you talk to your child. There is a full-on culture war, as they are trying to persuade, intimidate, censor, and influence the public to their worldview. It’s no longer acceptable for conservatives to sit on the sidelines because the war is real. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-285-fighting-the-culture-war-for-the-sake-of-our-children/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – Transgenerism is a small percentage of people. Still, it's an ideology that sits on top of a humungous iceberg designed to fracture the culture, destroy conservative views, and promote ideas that are blatantly against God and His Word. Not seeing and understanding this problem while not redemptively reacting to it is not an option for us any longer. We must educate ourselves while mobilizing to turn back the tide in these culture wars. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-284-the-transgender-problem-is-the-tip-of-a-larger-iceberg/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – One of the things that I talk about in our Mastermind program is how there is no passing or failing: how traditional education and training work. Appealing for a good grade could be one of the worst things we could do for our students. We’re developing leaders, which is more than making sure they have the right information. In addition to their competence, we assess and help them in areas of character, compassion, and courage. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-283-why-our-counselor-training-program-is-unlike-any-other/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – Social media platforms are not interested in selling your information. They intend to get you addicted to their platforms, so you stay on them longer. They call you a user, which is the language of addiction. How aware are you of what Silicon Valley is doing to you, and what are you doing about it? Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-282-social-dilemma-what-social-media-is-doing-to-you/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – EMDR is Eye-Movement Desensitization Reprocessing Therapy. Though it has been around for decades, it has gained a lot of momentum within Christian circles the past few years. It’s a common question that comes to our ministry. In this episode, Rick explains what it is, does it work, and how Christians should view this soul care method. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-281-emdr-eye-movement-desensitization-reprocessing-therapy/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/

Shows Main Idea – I was listening to a Dennis Prager show, and someone asked him if he could go back to his twenties, what would he do differently. I started reflecting on that question, and though I don’t live in guilt and regret, it was helpful to think about a few things I would do differently. Show Notes: https://rickthomas.net/podcast/ep-280-a-few-things-i-would-do-if-i-could-go-back/ Will you help us so we can continue to provide free content to the world? You can become a supporting member here rickthomas.net/recurring-membership/ Or you can make a one-time or recurring donation(s) here https://rickthomas.net/donations/