Chantal Heide - Canada's Dating Coach

I explore a listener's dilemma about whether she should hook up with a guy who seems like he can't keep it in his pants and doesn't align with what she wants long-term.   Join me as I discuss the importance of knowing your desires, assessing the risks, and making informed decisions when faced with such tempting yet complicated situations. 

In this podcast episode, I sit down with a man intrigued by the "No Kissing for 3 Months" dating rule but puzzled about the no exclusivity aspect. He expresses concern that by not going exclusive, he might miss out if the woman chooses someone else before he gets a chance. I take this opportunity to clarify the process, emphasizing the importance of not giving exclusivity out of insecurity. We delve into why a thorough vetting period is crucial for building a solid foundation in relationships.   I also recommend he check out my book, "The Perfect Play," the ultimate dating guide for men. Join us for an enlightening discussion that sheds light on mindful dating strategies and the value of patience.

Listen in as we discuss the possibility of a zero-fight relationship in this episode. We explore personal responsibility for thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, drawing insights from my book Fix That Shit. Discover practical strategies for healthier relationships.  

In this podcast episode, I talk with a man who shares his experience of domestic violence. He discusses using a rage room to manage his anger. We discuss choosing supportive partners and healthy coping mechanisms. I recommended he and his partner grab my book 'Fix That Shit,' which teaches healthy communication tools.

This episode features a discussion about the 'no kissing for 3 months' rule and maintaining non-exclusivity during this period to vet potential partners effectively. The focus is on how these strategies help in assessing loyalty and establishing security in a relationship. For more insightful episodes, subscribe to our podcast        

During a TikTok live session, I chat with a guy interested in the journey of self-discovery before entering the dating world. We explore why it’s essential to understand yourself and know what you want before starting a relationship. We also discuss why a person's 'body count' shouldn't influence your view of them and the benefits of the 'no kissing for three months' dating rule. Tune in for a conversation that might reshape your approach to dating and personal connections!

In this episode, we dive into a live coaching session where I answer your dating questions. We discuss when to introduce a new partner to your close circle, explore date ideas, and cover how to ensure safety when dating. Tune in for advice and tips to improve your dating experience.   Whether you're new to dating or looking to deepen a relationship, this episode offers practical insights for everyone.   Join us as we navigate modern dating using the No Kissing for 3 Months dating Rule.

In this episode, I conduct a live coaching session with a woman who has adopted my 'no kissing for 3 months' dating rule. Despite her commitment, she struggles with reinforcing boundaries and does things that are not aligned with her desire to pursue a long-term relationship. Tune in to hear how we navigate these challenges together. Listen now to discover the importance of strong boundaries in dating!"

In this episode, we talk with Diane about her work as an energy healer. She explains what she does for people and how she helps change their lives by addressing trauma, depression, and other difficult challenges through energy healing. We also discuss different archetypes and tools you can use to improve your inner and outer world as a spiritual being.   Tune in to learn more about energy healing and how it might help you.

Hey everyone! In this episode, I'm hanging out with Derek Gerard, the guy behind the popular YouTube channel 'That Library Show.' We're getting into some real talk about dating for both men and women. I shared my 'No Kissing for 3 Months' dating rule, a way to assess if someone's right for you before you commit. We also tackled that big question: does size matter when it comes to intimacy? It's a candid discussion about myths, truths, and what really makes a difference in making connections and keeping things interesting.

In this episode of our podcast, we delve into the world of relationships, nervous system dynamics, and the impact of societal structures with the insightful Melissa Petlichkov. Melissa, a registered social worker and practicing psychotherapist, brings her extensive knowledge and compassionate approach to our discussion, offering a unique perspective on how we form and maintain relationships. Key Points Discussed: Understanding Polyvagal Theory: Melissa breaks down the complex concepts of Polyvagal Theory, explaining how our nervous system plays a crucial role in how we connect with others and perceive safety in our relationships. Impact of Patriarchy on Relationship Choices: We explore the profound effects of patriarchal influences on women's ability to choose partners. Melissa provides an in-depth analysis of how societal norms and expectations can skew our natural mate selection processes. Recognizing Nervous System Responses in Mate Selection: Learn how to identify the subtle cues our bodies give us d

Ever wondered how to build a healthy, conflict-free relationship where understanding overcomes resentment? In my latest podcast episode, I dive into this topic with Steven, a guest from my live session, who shares his insights on dealing with a partner's insecurities. Don't miss out - subscribe for new episodes and join me live on TikTok, Monday to Friday, 10 AM to 12 noon.

Check out this snippet from my TikTok live where a man shares his experience with the 'No Kissing for 3 Months' rule. He talks about how this approach helped him find a great relationship by focusing on getting to know each other first, without the distraction of physical intimacy. Listen to his story of how patience, impulse control, and knowing yourself and what you deserve led to finding a true connection.

In this 11th episode of our coaching series, join us as we delve into Holly's evolving love life. After meeting someone who truly resonates with her, Holly's journey took an unexpected turn. The couple briefly parted ways due to disagreements over the "no kissing for three months" rule, a guideline Holly has been adhering to for better relationship vetting. However, the story takes a hopeful twist when the man re-enters her life, offering an apology and reigniting the potential of their connection. Despite feeling a strong urge to break the three-month rule, Holly remains committed to developing stronger self-control and character. In this session, we explore the tools and strategies I've been teaching Holly to help her resist these impulses. We also reflect on the transformative impact these practices have had on her life, offering insights and inspiration for anyone navigating the complex world of modern dating. Don't forget to subscribe to our podcast for more updates on Holly's journey and practical advic

In this episode, I delve into an inspiring conversation with my lovely guest, Nene. Nene's unique journey through the world of dating unveils a refreshing perspective on building strong foundations for long-lasting relationships. Nene shares her experience of encountering the "No Kissing Rule," a concept introduced by the man she was dating when she expressed her desire to take things slow. This rule, rooted in the principles advocated in  my book, "No More Assholes," offers invaluable insights into the art of vetting potential partners and fostering healthy connections without rushing into physical intimacy. Throughout the episode, I and Nene discuss the importance of setting boundaries and respecting one another's pace in the dating world. We explore how embracing the "No Kissing Rule" can be a game-changer in cultivating meaningful, long-term relationships. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of the strategies and mindset shifts necessary for establishing a solid emotional foundation with your significa

I recently had a fascinating conversation with Tyler Kepp, who crossed paths with one of my TikTok live sessions. What's even more intriguing is how Tyler's journey unfolded after he decided to pick up my book, Fix That Shit for Men, and put into action the practical advice I shared during my live streams, all in pursuit of a harmonious relationship. During our chat, Tyler and I delved into his transformation, which all started with that serendipitous discovery on social media. His decision to embrace the principles I discussed in those live sessions triggered powerful changes. Together, we unravel the layers of self-discovery, emotional responsibility, and effective communication that played a pivotal role in his journey. Tyler's story is a testament to facing emotions and taking ownership of feelings. With the guidance he found in my book and through our conversation, Tyler and his wife embarked on a shared path of understanding, resulting in a relationship that not only sheds needless conflicts but also ra

Join me in this episode, where I sit down with a special guest Carly, a passionate dating coach and dedicated follower of our message. Carly stumbled upon one of my content and resonated deeply with the "No Kissing for 3 Months" dating rule and the importance of setting boundaries in today's fast-paced dating world. We dive into a candid conversation about finding one's authentic voice and building confidence, a journey that Carly and I have embraced.  We shed light on the challenges modern dating culture poses, often tainted by misconceptions and misguided advice from pick-up artists. Carly and I shared our insights into the common experiences many women face due to these influences and how it has shaped their dating journeys. Don't forget to give us a rating!

In my 10th real dating coaching session with Holly, we talked about her encounter with a man who turned out to be a predator during one of her dates. The harassment and vulnerability she experienced were both shocking and saddening. As a dating and relationship coach, it's my mission to empower women to take charge of their love lives, so we addressed the societal conditioning that often makes us feel like prey in the dating world. Holly and I delved into how cultural norms have played a role in women tolerating inappropriate behavior and how it's time to break free from this pattern. Empowerment was the central theme of our conversation, and we explored practical ways to manage the dating environment effectively. From setting clear boundaries to communicating openly about our expectations, these strategies can transform our dating experiences into safe and enjoyable journeys. We talked about the "No Kissing for 3 Months" dating rule and how tthis approach allows women to set the pace and take the time to get