Ask Falan

In today’s deeply personal episode, I peel back the curtain on a year-long journey that’s been both challenging and transformative. Titled “At War with Myself,” I dive into the internal battles that nearly halted my podcasting journey. For the past year, I’ve grappled with loss, creative blocks, and the relentless pursuit of perfection, my true Virgo nature, which led to a stifling of my voice and vision. The hurt paralyzed me for over a year. I couldn’t speak, I couldn’t fight, I took every hit until it left me on my knees before God. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askfalan/message

In this short episode Falan explains how she will no longer prioritize this podcast but rather focus on her business. She also explains how constantly hitting rock bottom prepares you for bigger things you have manifested. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askfalan/message

In this episode Falan explains why she had to save herself from her family problems drowning her. You don’t owe anybody anything! --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askfalan/message

In this episode Falan discusses the burnout she experienced with her family life. Most people experience burnout in work but Falan loves work, it’s her happy place. Setting boundaries allows for everyone involved to have structure. Follow for more tips by subscribing to the newsletter on LinkedIn or www.FalanBlake.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askfalan/message

Here Falan shares 10 warning signs to know when you are burned out in business, work or life. It happens to the best of us. On Wednesday's full episode Falan will share 10 actionable steps to resolve burnout. Sign up for Falan's Newsletter at www.FalanBlake.com To get the full written article on Burnout or add Falan on LinkedIn. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askfalan/message

* ( Explicit Language in this episode) Falan talks about putting herself first and recalling her energy from those who appeared to not appreciate her kindness. In this episode she tells her listeners that it’s ok to be selfish! Take a few moments out of your day to truly put yourself first. Follow Falan on social media. While she is no longer directly active on most of her profiles, you can still see her content daily. Subscribe to her newsletter www.FalanBlake.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askfalan/message

Falan Blake returns from yet another hiatus to bring us season 6 with 2 episodes a week. Sundays and Wednesdays Falan will try to accomodate guests periodically as well as recording " A Day In the Life Of". In this episode Falan explains her sudden departure from ALL social media and how she plans to bring us all 2 shows a week with her extra time. Follow Falan's newsletter at www.FalanBlake.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/askfalan/message

Season 6 airs with a happy Falan who shares the insights on how she recovered from losing her path last year. A year ago this week was a devastation to her business investments and experiencing cyberstalking.  Falan talks about her re-branded business, what she is working on this summer and how you can achieve building out your business as well. In this episode, Falan shares her new social media personal branding accounts and how you can book her for a business consultation. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/askfalan/message

In this episode Falan kicks off Domestic Violence Awareness Month with Sonia Frontera who authored the latest book STOP THE HURT /PON FIN AL ABUSO pamphlet a quick guide to recognizing the signs of abuse and how to exit safely. Growing up, Sonia always wanted to have a sister. She discovered, later in life, that the best way to have a sister is to be one. Through her book series The Sister’s Guides to Empowered Living, Sonia vows to inspire and empower readers around the world. Sonia is a divorce lawyer, empowerment trainer and author. The owner of Frontera Law in Lambertville, N.J., she offers forward-thinking legal solutions to help individuals end their marriages amicably and navigate the immigration maze. The author of Relationships Solutions: Effective Strategies to Heal Your Heart and Create the Happiness You Deserve, Sonia  offers practical advice and hope to people whose lives have been upended by marital troubles, teaching them how to dissolve their obstacles to happiness and create fulfilling l

IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING THIS COMMON ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR NOW IS THE TIME TO JOIN WITH ME IN ADVOCATING FOR CHANGE. Reach out to be apart of the change Ask@AskFalan.com In this episode Falan launches her mission to advocate for victims of cyber crimes. As a victim for the last 15 years, she is determined to finally share her story publicly as to why she constantly leaves social media and creates dummy accounts. Measures to take:  Hiring Buffers ( People who can manage your accounts for you) Or a trusted friend.  Using pseudonyms. Cleaning up your digital footprint App phone numbers dedicated emails attached to the social medias that are spam related or for sign ups for subscriptions create an avatar or media persona that does not reflect your real identity. documenting everything especially proof you asked them to stop. Contact the National Center for Victims of Crime 1-855-484-2846 ( 1-855- 4-VICTIM) #cyberstalking #domesticviolenceawareness   --- Send in a voice message: https:/

In this painful, emotional yet victorious brief episode; Falan walks you through the devastating months she faced cyberstalking. This led to her deleting all of her social media until she was able to recover and come back stronger. If you or someone you know is a victim of a CyberCrime please contact the FBI.gov --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/askfalan/message

Falan speaks with a former Division 1 swimmer and retired triathlete with a 30-year record of success helping giants like Intel and EMC plus seven startups resulting in six exits, Alison empowers Executives, Leaders, and Aspiring Leaders to "Dare 2 Be" Peak Performers. Always a trailblazer, Alison received her Master’s Degrees in Electrical Engineering at a time when women with those degrees were rare. She started her career as an engineer before moving to sales, marketing, management, and leadership. Competitive swimming at an elite level taught Alison that real growth happens by pushing outside your comfort zone; a principle she applied throughout her career and now with her clients. Supporting individuals to achieve their Personal Best is simply what she does best. During her corporate career, Alison mastered the challenge of customer adoption of emerging technologies, creating product roadmaps, building and closing large complex 7-figure deals, and leading effective teams. The core principle underneath he

In this episode Falan interviews Rob Kessler of Million Dollar Collar who created a solution to a sloppy neckline that often ruins your crisp, polished look without a tie. He talks about his journey to creating a kickstarter campaign that has led to a successful business. A look back on his wedding photos Rob cringed that the only imperfection was his collar of his shirt, he sought out to find a solution to this issue. Are you tired of wearing ties? Gone are the days where we dress up wearing stuffy ties all the time. There are other professional looks that you can still pull off especially with a permanent straight collar. You know, collars can now stand at attention with Rob Kessler's invention of the Million Dollar Collar and he was so gracious to come on the show to tell you about it. A sophisticated design concept that allows you to go tieless. Just take a look at the company overview and order your Million Dollar Collars today. NEVER LOOK SLOPPY AGAIN, THE WORLD'S ONLY PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A SLOPPY COL

In this episode, I candidly explain how divulging my business income online made me a target from people I actually know. I wanted to so much to help single moms thrive as I have suffered as a single mom for more than a decade.  In my efforts to show PROOF that you can build a profitable virtual business fast, jealous people planned their attack on me. I was sued bogusly and scammed from a fake marketing person I knew nearly a decade. It is IMPORTANT that you STOP telling people your business online and to your friends and family. YOUR INCOME IS BETWEEN YOU, THE CPA YOU HAVE AND THE IRS.  This is the reason why I am not on social media. When I return, if ever, It will be a fan page monitored. THIS episode is my truth, my pain, my shame. I learned the hard way.... At least I have my life... for now. Just know, I am being targeted online by known and unknown people seeking to do me harm. Please understand that being a Media Personality is my INCOME stream and this safety concern has compromised my men

Falan interviews Megan M. Matte. Megan is a mindset coach who helps passionate people (who are willing to take relentless personal responsibility for their own advancement) to understand how their brain works so that they can shift it into its fullest potential. She witnessed the terrorist attacks of 9/11 from her dorm room window the first week of college. It was then that she realized: she could stay stuck in trauma, fear, anxiety, and limiting beliefs which would become her identity and therefore her life; or she could do the work to heal and change from the inside out. That realization lead her to create the life, business, and relationship of her dreams. At the original time we recorded this show Ask Falan was Top 5% Worldwide. Today August 2, 2021 we are at Top 1.5% worldwide. To advertise on the show reach out to Ask@AskFalan.com To connect with Megan https://www.instagram.com/meg_mcavoy_matte/ https://meganmcavoymatte.com/ https://www.facebook.com/meganmcavoymatte https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ3O

Falan interviews Patti Negri who is a Psychic-Medium and “Good Witch” best known for her recurring role on the Travel Channel’s #1 show GHOST ADVENTURES. She is the international best selling author of OLD WORLD MAGICK FOR THE MODERN WORLD: TIPS, TRICKS, & TECHNIQUES TO BALANCE, EMPOWER, & CREATE A LIFE YOU LOVE. Patti’s body of work includes appearances on such shows as MASTER CHEF, BEVERLY HILLS PAWN and Jeff Lewis’ FLIPPING OUT. She has graced numerous magazine covers, contributed to over 20 books and conducted seances on radio, film, and TV working with such legends as Jon Voight, Josh Duhamel, Chevy Chase and Gregory Hines. In this episode, Falan tells Patti about her precognitive abilities and how she blocks them to try to function normally in the real world. Patti explains how grounding and purging blockages can remove false limitations in the subconscious mind.  To contact Patti Negri for a reading or a clearing https://www.pattinegri.com/pages/book-patti https://www.pattinegri.com/ --

Falan interviews Terry Boyle McDougall who is an executive coach, speaker and best-selling author of Winning the Game of Work: Career Happiness and Success on Your Own Terms. She works with managers, executives and professionals who want to draw upon their greatest, most authentic abilities to positively impact their organizations. She supports clients who are creating change, driving innovation, and navigating transitions. Leaving your 9 to 5 can be a challenging feat, listening to this episode will give you better insight on the process. To connect with Terry: Links: Website: https://www.terrybmcdougall.com LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/terrybmcdougall Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/terrybmcdougall Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/i_am_coach_terry Book: https://www.tinyurl.com/gameofworkbook Podcast: https://www.marketingmambo.net --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/askfalan/message

THANK YOU, THANK YOU TO LISTENERS AND SUBSCRIBERS AROUND THE WORLD. WE ARE AIMING FOR THAT NUMBER 1 SPOT SOMEDAY! EVEN IF JUST FOR A DAY. IN THIS EPISODE FALAN DISCUSSES HER DECISION TO ABANDON ALL OF HER SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS AFTER INCESSANT STALKING AND THE COMPROMISING OF HER BUSINESS. FORTUNATELY HER CREATIVE AND NATURAL INSTINCT TO FIGHT BACK AND START OVER HAS NOT QUELLED HER STRENGTH TO KEEP GOING.  FALAN HAS REBUILT HER BUSINESSES ALL OVER AGAIN AND DETERMINED TO PUSH FORWARD ANYWAY. HER DREAM WILL NOT BE STOPPED JUST BECAUSE OF BORED INDIVIDUALS WITH LACK OF SELF AWARENESS.  SEASON 5 IS BIGGER THAN EVER AND GAINING MOMENTUM. WE CAN'T WAIT FOR YOU TO HEAR WHO WE HAVE COMING ON THE SHOW. SIGN UP FOR OUR NEWSLETTER TO STAY CONNECTED TO FALAN AS SHE CONTINUES TO PIVOT.  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/askfalan/message

In this live episode Falan recorded on her YouTube channel you can see this episode. Falan explains why she left Instagram and her focus on going in a very different direction than she planned.  She explains pivoting last minute and why she felt the desire to cut off her income source to suit her mental health. Don't be afraid to move differently, embrace the change and protect your energy at all costs. Falan is on Twitter, Linkedin  --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/askfalan/message

Falan interviews Cynthia Zhai a Voice Coach, Tedx speaker and Best Selling Author. Falan has worked as a voiceover for commercials and radio nearly 10 years as well as in the media as a TV Personality but until recently decided to pivot into Public Speaking about her own life. Falan starts her speaking tour this summer.  Cynthia helps Falan finally discover her powerful voice and overcome the fear of her being her authentic self and thinking that it would be too harsh for her professional peers. In this episode you will learn the importance of authenticity and sharing your true nature to resonate with your ideal audience. To learn more about Cynthia Zhai visit her website www.powerfulexecutivevoice.com Watch Cynthia on her Tedx Talk  Follow Cynthia on Linkedin and Instagram. Subscribe to her on YouTube --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/askfalan/message